Heartbreak comes in many shapes and sizes. It stems from expectations and or stories being destroyed. Attachments being torn apart, hopes being crushed, beliefs being challenged and realities being re-written.
But the greatest heartbreaks are the ones we are oblivious to. Heartbreak is turning off the capacity to feel out of fear that the pain will hurt. The unconscious walls that we build up to guard a heart that we were taught is fragile. But is it?
The stories we tell ourselves aren’t even ours, so many of them have been told for generations; passed down like family heirlooms. But what if we don’t take them on, what if we pick up our own pen and write our own story?
Heartbreak is not living in joy; it’s turning your back on your soul because you are consumed by ego; it’s living a life for others instead of yourself; it’s walking through your moments with a judgemental view of yourself and others. Heartbreak, is the stories we tell ourselves when we have lost our way home and can’t remember the infinite, the abundance and the light.
Pain is a messenger. Loss is a winter making space for spring. Disappointment is a reminder of manufactured expectations. We are vast, abundant beings who have become so consumed by the things we chase.
Chase meaning and your life will be full of meaning, chase pleasure and there will be highs that mask the lows. Chase what is real, true and beautiful and you are painting a canvas that is full of colour.
The heart doesn’t break, it just opens so that you can set yourself free from the suffering that you were blind to. Go into the world with a knowing that you belong, you are enough and that you are loveable. Go into the world knowing your heart can and will always heal.
Let your light come through.
Love Always,
M
Souloom™ 