Category: Spirituality

  • Not trusting you, but trusting me

    People have various forms, shades and versions. You can’t possibly fully know someone, because there will always be new circumstance which will bring into question one’s character, beliefs, attitude and behaviour. This makes it difficult to trust, I mean how can you trust people if you can’t actually ever know who they are and what…

  • Stillness…

    Have you ever heard the sound of silence? Ever sat in a room with no noise, no distraction and been truly present? If not, then I would recommend that you build the right conditions to experience this, if yes, then you know that in the silence and in the stillness you can hear all the…

  • Maybe…

    Maybe it’s not about who’s right or wrong, Maybe it’s not about who’s here and gone; Maybe it’s not about truths and lies, Maybe it’s not about you or I; Maybe it’s not about what I said or what you did, Maybe it’s not about where I go or where I’ve been; Maybe it’s not…

  • Convention

    It’s all convention, find love, get married, buy house and have kids. A story that has taken shape in many ways throughout all of civilisation. It’s a convention that I thought I wanted for a very long time; but the older I got and the more I got to know myself, the more I question…

  • Benefit of the doubt…

    Things don’t always make sense, not everything is fair and we don’t always get what we want. No one said that life would be easy but no one said it has to be hard. It’s all a matter of perspective and attitude. I say this with full understanding that sometimes we are handed shit cards,…

  • This is my stop…

    Timing, is such an important ingredient in the recipe of life. So many opportunities, relationships and experiences are determined by a sheer fact of luck and being in the right place, at the right time with the right person and experiencing the right things. Sometimes we get to observe and witness a glimpse of what…

  • To-do lists…

    It’s a Sunday and I’m going through my draft writings and I’ve come across the following draft from over a year ago: I’m sitting here this Sunday morning feeling over excited about what I want to do today. Have you ever had the struggle of wanting to do more than you can physically find the…

  • Today I may be right, tomorrow, who knows…

    So here we are, all of us going through our lives and every day we are faced with infinite choices, circumstances and experiences. Flowing through life and sometimes not even realising how time passes us by. It’s hard to be present, when there is so much going on around you and in your head. When…

  • We tried…

    It wasn’t his fault that I was unwell, that I was suffering from the pain, that I was evolving into the version that I needed to be. He was there during my worst and he tried his best. But I put the blame on him because he was nowhere near perfect himself. He too was…

  • No conditions.. Just boundaries

    There will be many people who will be undeserving of your love, your time, affection, energy and presence; but the question doesn’t lie in whether or not they’re deserving, the question lies in whether or not you want to be the person who loves unconditionally or if you want to be the person who loves…